“What you focus on expands.” Most of us have heard that phrase. It’s the principle of the “law of attraction.”
Sounds so easy. Yet it’s also easy to forget.
Years ago when the film “The Secret” was all the rage, a friend of mine said she refused to watch the film because she’d known about the Law of Attraction for years and years.
Yet she didn’t practice it! She was someone who always focused on the negative. And when you focus on the negative, you just get more negative stuff happening to you.
Because what you focus on expands. Period.
Applying the principle to relationships:
“Without goals, and plans to reach them, you are like a ship that has set sail with no destination.” Fitzhugh Dodson
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