Memorial Day: Earn it!
This post was first published in May 2012.
“James, earn this… earn it.” Dying words of Capt. John Miller to Private James Ryan in the film, Saving Private Ryan
Officially, Memorial Day in the United States is a day for remembering and honoring all Americans who died in any war.
Unfortunately, Memorial Day weekend also marks the beginning of the summer holiday, with people focusing on shopping, family gatherings, picnics and sporting events. So we sometimes forget the real meaning of the Day.
I suggest that each of us take time out from this holiday weekend to say a prayer of thanks for those that gave of their lives so that we could live ours in freedom.
My Uncle Frank
One day during World War II, my grandmother, Nana Sue, was shopping with her oldest daughter when she suddenly felt very weak and had to be helped to the car.
It wasn’t a heart attack; she had a strong premonition that one of her sons had just died.
She was right. The next day she learned that, at the minute she felt faint, her son Frank was killed in a plane crash during flight training for the Air Force.
Such is the connection between mother and child.
Many of us have heard such stories, perhaps even experienced them.
Regardless of one’s political leanings, or whether you personally knew them, the death of a young person in war, far from home, is a tragedy.
Saving Private Ryan
Saving Private Ryan is a 1998 film which follows a World War II Normandy Invasion company commander and his special squad sent to locate and bring home a soldier whose three brothers had all been killed in action.
The squad of 8 is led by Capt. Miller [Tom Hanks] and six were killed during the mission to save one young man, including Capt. Miller.
Captain Miller’s dying words to Private Ryan were, “James, earn this… earn it.”
The final scene of the film shows the Older James Ryan addressing Capt. Miller’s grave:
“ My family is with me today. They wanted to come with me. To be honest with you, I wasn’t sure how I’d feel coming back here. Every day I think about what you said to me that day on the bridge. I tried to live my life the best that I could. I hope that was enough. I hope that, at least in your eyes, I’ve earned what all of you have done for me.”
My Uncle Frank died in World War II, never having left behind any children – his only legacy courage and dedication to serving his country. I can honor his memory by trying to live my life in the same way.
My suggestion today is that the Memorial Day we remember those who have sacrificed their lives so that we may live ours. Try to live your life the best you can, and earn what our soldiers have done for us.
“The word memorial does not indicate that someone has died. It symbolizes that someone has lived. What is going to be that living memorial that you’re going to leave behind? Why are we here now? We’re here to add something, to construct, to preserve. To leave something good for those little ones who are going to come into our world. Let that motivation be so firmly established in your heart and mind that you can say, ‘I will stand for this. I will live for this.’ ” Bear Heart in The Wind Is My Mother
Molly Larkin is the co-author of the international best-seller “The Wind Is My Mother; The Life and Teachings of a Native American Shaman.” She is passionate about helping people live life to their fullest potential through her classes, podcast and blog at www.MollyLarkin.com